…the problem with modesty is that “the idea that society can tell you how much of your body to reveal or hide implies that your body does not belong to you.” That’s why modesty is bullshit for both men and women. But the convenient absence of men on the modesty-obsessed website — except when they are perving over teenagers under the guise of being concerned about them — highlights how particularly hypocritical this site is.
You can’t purport to host an open, nonjudgmental forum while repeatedly enforcing the idea that women, and women only, are responsible for whether or not men lust after them. That’s a pervasive concept that perpetuates rape culture; it doesn’t help young women feel good about themselves or teach people to respect one another or help anyone in any way. Other than, of course, the sexually repressed dicks who get off on telling girls and women how to behave."